Not sure what i'm doing wrong.

[Supreme Leader]

Sorry, no i havent got it workig, i got Memu working but the bot just keeps trying to open bluestack which i've uninstalled.

How do i get the bot to comunicate with Memu?

The bot programmed (if MEmu installed Ignore bluestacks)
so if its not ignoring BS that means there was something wrong with your MEmu installation

I uninstalled both and reinstalled but the same error. 

I'll try on my PC. Blue stack just kept giving me BSOD on the PC but was fine on the laptop.

Edit, no go there too, Memu installs but gets to 99% then just closes with the 'this program has had to close error'

Theres something definitely wrong with your PC.. or operating system